Help i cant sleep with out my wife? need help?

That's sweet. My husband can't sleep either when we are apart. You have a lucky wife. Try some Advil PM. Two pills should do it an hour before bed. Sometimes they take two hours to work. That and 1 mg of melatonin. Usually that takes an hour to work. Eating an hour before bed helps. Carbohydrates will make you sleepy. Good luck. Do not overdo over the counter meds. ;)